[[{"fid":"48294","view_mode":"default","fields":{"format":"default","field_file_image_alt_text[und][0][value]":"October 27 is National Mentoring Day!","field_file_image_title_text[und][0][value]":"October 27 is National Mentoring Day!"},"link_text":null,"type":"media","field_deltas":{"2":{"format":"default","field_file_image_alt_text[und][0][value]":"October 27 is National Mentoring Day!","field_file_image_title_text[und][0][value]":"October 27 is National Mentoring Day!"}},"attributes":{"alt":"October 27 is National Mentoring Day!","title":"October 27 is National Mentoring Day!","height":1365,"width":2048,"style":"height: 267px; width: 401px; float: left;","class":"media-element file-default","data-delta":"2"}}]]October 27 may be National Mentoring Day... but �ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� has 364 more of them!

Head’s up, Vikings! October 27 is ! Launched to celebrate the significant benefits of mentoring, the day draws focus on recognizing excellence and raising awareness on the huge impact one-to-one personal mentoring on not only our economy but also our society. 

Inspired by , an annual campaign to promote youth mentoring, the day brings focus to the importance of student- and peer-to-peer mentoring and career coaching. Mentoring is something we take very seriously here at �ϰ������ϲʹٷ�����—not just on a given day or month, but all year long. Here's a snapshot into some of what �ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� offers students in the way of guidance, mentoring and coaching every day and why it's important.

Mentoring and Coaching: Major Component of Engaged Learning

�ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� has a wealth of resources and support for students who are finding their way through the university experience: The �ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� TRIO/SSS/First Gen Center,  First Year Experience Peer Mentoring Program, The Pratt Center, Pathways to Practice, Graduation Coaching Office, Summer Bridge Enrichment Academy, Live & Learn Communities, Office of Career Development & Exploration and more.

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Consider deepening those connections as well. You never know where it will lead.

Mentoring and Coaching: An Ecosystem

The “deepening” is the key. Most resources that students find in books, articles and advice from internet searches ultimately come from the perspective of a mentor or coach. Local entrepreneur and business professional David Lupyan of Lupyan & Associates suggests taking the spirit of mentoring deep into a career, building a varied network of connections with the same mindset.

“The best professional resource you can have is an intellectually diverse network,” said Lupyan.

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The fact is, the interpersonal nature of mentoring and coaching lies in connection, communication, relationship and teambuilding—something that requires a two-way flow of honesty and information between mentor and mentee that transcends anything transactional.

In 2019, our own Mandi Goodsett, M.Ed., M.S. and librarian of the �ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� Michael Schwartz Library, . It’s a great read for anyone looking to find a good mentor or coach, regardless of educational/career tract.

What Makes a Mentee?

The short answer is engaged curiosity. The longer answer involves a lot of investment: time, effort, commitment, connectivity and relationship.

In A Short Guide to Being Mentored: Tips for Strong Relationships, the Performing Arts & Humanities Librarian and Open Educational Resources & Copyright Advisor says that mentors and mentees aren’t born, they’re made.

 looks to six keys to making coaching and mentoring work from the student perspective: Commit. Plan. Prepare. Listen. Collaborate. Read up.

After graduating with her library science degree, Goodsett said that she was “interested in getting more support and began exploring the landscape of mentoring and librarianship.” Before long, she was signed up for six mentoring programs across seven years’ time—local through national levels—comparing them to see what was effective and what wasn’t.

Blending the Traditional with the Nontraditional

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“Sometimes, there’s this sense that participation is good enough,” Goodsett added. “But it really isn’t a transactional experience and it shouldn’t be. For mentoring to be completely meaningful in time and energy, both parties need to show up and engage.”

Nick Petty, M.Ed., executive director of student success and excellence agrees. So much so, in fact, that he receives three messages from three different mentees while we discuss the subject. There’s a familial rapport and mutual respect in the mentorship relationship. And if there isn’t, there should be.

Petty believes that “a critical attribute to student success is relationships and a sense of belonging, feeling part of a community,” and said that tradition suggests mentorship as a “structured relationship through which mentees benefit by receiving advice and instruction from a seasoned professional.”

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The approach of the group he anchors is focused on helping students overcome barriers, both academic and nonacademic. Simply email Petty through their page to get started.

“Unconditional Guidance and Unwavering Support”

Megan Mukenge is one of the newer members of the �ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� Graduation Coaching team. She works with a cohort of students to provide mentoring support, academic and career guidance and connections to additional resources on campus. More generally, she serves as a personal guide to help new members of the �ϰ������ϲʹٷ����� community find their way and succeed.

“Most of the students I work with are the first in their families to attend college and have limited experience with navigating a university environment,” Mukenge said. “The relationship between a mentor and mentee is so incredibly impactful. Mentorship utilizes a two-way approach to elevate the mind, skillset and resiliency of others to realize and achieve their greatest potential.

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“When I reflect back on the mentors that I have had throughout the years, I am forever grateful for the role they have played in helping me foster my own personal and professional development,” she added.

“We believe that relationships are essential to supporting our students to help them realize their academic and professional goals. That doesn’t end when we part ways on campus for short or long periods of time,” Petty said. 

“These relationships build and grow. We see that boomerang back to us,” Petty added, pointing to his mobile phone with a smile. “Some of them even text during the day to let us know how they’re doing.”

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